Deep Dives & Big Feelings
This is a space where I explore ideas at the intersection of psychology, culture, society, and current events, sharing insights and reflections from my professional perspective.
From Lone Wolves to Strong Packs: Men, Mental Health, and Modern Masculinity
Masculinity is evolving. For generations, men have been told to go it alone — to be strong, stoic, and silent. But isolation isn’t strength. In From Lone Wolves to Strong Packs, psychologist Tama Barry explores how men’s mental health, connection, and masculinity have changed — and how rebuilding community can help men, and those who love them, thrive.
Rest as a Radical Act: Rethinking Recovery
Rest is more than sleep or downtime — it’s a radical act of reclaiming agency, resisting grind culture, and creating space for healing. Drawing on the work of Tricia Hersey (Rest Is Resistance) and Dr. Pooja Lakshmin (Real Self-Care), this blog explores how rest challenges productivity norms, honours collective care, and opens the door to new possibilities for wellbeing and justice.
Beyond Luck: Engaging the World Through Mastery, Meaning, and Perspective
We often imagine life as a sequence of choices and outcomes, as though effort alone can tip the scales in our favour. Yet the reality is far messier—woven with chance encounters, systemic barriers, personal struggles, and moments of unexpected grace. While luck plays a role, it is far from the whole story.
This post explores how meaning, mastery, and perspective shape the way we engage with the world. Drawing on psychology, philosophy, and lived experience, it invites us to look beyond the idea of luck as something randomly dealt, and toward a deeper understanding of how we grow through both opportunity and adversity. Whether we begin several steps ahead or must forge a path against the current, the question is not only what luck gives us, but how we choose to respond, to create, and to live with integrity in an uneven world.
The Strengths of Neurodivergence in Sport: Harnessing Unique Abilities for Success
Neurodivergent athletes often bring unique strengths to sport, from heightened focus and creativity to innovative problem-solving. This post explores how embracing these differences can enhance performance, resilience, and personal growth, turning what’s often seen as a challenge into a competitive advantage.
Breaking the Cycle: Accounting for Minority Stress and Finding Joy in Queer Identity
Being queer often involves navigating minority stress—psychological strain from societal discrimination, microaggressions, and rejection. This stress is compounded for those with multiple marginalized identities (e.g., being queer and a person of colour, or neurodivergent). Media often portrays LGBTQ+ characters as tragic or secondary, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy. Coping mechanisms like perfectionism or self-destructive behaviours stem from internalized shame caused by these societal pressures.
Healing requires recognising that this stress isn't personal failure but a response to systemic harm. Affirming therapy, inclusive communities, and positive media representation are crucial for overcoming this cycle. Embracing authenticity, seeking support, and celebrating our queer identities are powerful acts of resistance and self-empowerment. We can break free from minority stress and build healthier, joyful lives by embracing who we truly are.